The Ultimate Guide to Understanding and Addressing Suicide Prevention: Why it Matters

The Ultimate Guide to Understanding and Addressing Suicide Prevention: Why it Matters

This September, Forward Counseling joins in recognizing Suicide Prevention and Recovery Month. In a world where we increasingly understand the importance of mental health for our overall well-being, addressing suicide prevention becomes very important. This guide explores this important topic, looking at why it matters and providing valuable insights to help people and communities save lives.

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Q and A with Sarah Catherine Trumbull, MA, PLPC

Q and A with Sarah Catherine Trumbull, MA, PLPC

Sarah Catherine Trumbull is a holistic therapist who believes healing comes from relationships and creating a safe environment for clients to feel heard and cared for. She works with individuals of all ages and walks of life, particularly those experiencing depression, anxiety, eating disorders, grief, low self-worth, trauma, and other life adjustments. She integrates cognitive behavioral techniques, mindfulness, and psychodynamic theory while acknowledging each person's unique story. Trumbull believes counseling offers a safe space to engage in one's story, reminding them of their worth and value, and helping them move towards wholeness and empowerment.

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Nurturing the Mind: How to Harness Nature to Improve Mental Health

Nurturing the Mind: How to Harness Nature to Improve Mental Health

In today's fast-paced and digitally-driven world, finding moments of peace and tranquility can be challenging. However, nature offers a powerful and accessible remedy for stress, anxiety, and other mental health concerns. The healing benefits of nature have been recognized for centuries, and incorporating nature into our daily lives can significantly enhance our mental well-being. In this blog, we will explore various ways to use nature to improve mental health and embrace the therapeutic wonders of the great outdoors.

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Q and A with Nemetria Tate, PsyD

Q and A with Nemetria Tate, PsyD

Nemetria Tate is a dedicated psychologist who understands that seeking assistance is a courageous step toward growth. Holding a doctorate in Clinical Psychology from The Chicago School of Professional Psychology, she specializes in helping adults navigate challenges such as low self-esteem, boundary issues, communication hurdles, adapting to life changes, trauma, anxiety, and depression. Nemetria's therapeutic approach is centered around Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy and other proven methods, all while maintaining a culturally sensitive and strengths-based perspective to ensure a customized and enriching therapeutic journey. Beyond her professional commitment, she finds joy in audiobooks, movies, and cherished moments spent playing games with loved ones.

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Spravato for Depression: A Ray of Hope in the Darkness of Despair

Spravato for Depression: A Ray of Hope in the Darkness of Despair

In the relentless battle against treatment-resistant depression, Spravato emerges as a beacon of hope, offering a lifeline where traditional treatments fall short. This breakthrough nasal spray, containing esketamine, FDA-approved for resistant depression, signifies a new dawn for individuals trapped in the suffocating grip of this mental health challenge. As patients embark on the emotional journey with Spravato, the potential for liberation from the burdens of depression becomes tangible. The treatment demands commitment, but for those finding relief, it becomes a lifeline, a renewed chance at life. Spravato not only impacts the individual but also brings renewed hope to their support systems, illuminating a path toward healing and possibilities in the midst of emotional darkness.

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Mindfulness for the Mind: Strategies to Enhance Focus and Concentration

Mindfulness for the Mind: Strategies to Enhance Focus and Concentration

In our fast-paced and digitally-driven world, maintaining focus and concentration has become a challenging task. With constant distractions and the pressure to juggle multiple responsibilities, our minds often wander, hindering our productivity and overall well-being. However, the practice of mindfulness offers a powerful solution to enhance focus and concentration. Let us explore the transformative role of mindfulness in achieving mental clarity, overcoming distractions, and fostering a deeper sense of presence in our daily lives.

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Forest Sitting: Embracing Tranquility and Connection with Nature

In the midst of our busy and technology-driven lives, finding moments of peace and solace can be a challenge. However, there is a mindful practice that allows us to slow down, immerse ourselves in nature, and find serenity amidst the trees - forest sitting. More than just a mere pastime, forest sitting is a meditative and contemplative experience that encourages us to connect with the natural world on a profound level. In this blog, we will explore the art of forest sitting, its benefits, and how it can help us cultivate a deeper bond with nature.

1. The Essence of Forest Sitting

Forest sitting, also known as tree sitting or woodland meditation, involves spending time in a forest or wooded area, ideally away from human disturbances. Unlike traditional meditation, forest sitting doesn't require a specific posture or focused breath control. Instead, it invites us to embrace stillness, silence, and the beauty of nature surrounding us.

2. Mindfulness in Nature

At the heart of forest sitting lies mindfulness - the practice of being fully present in the moment without judgment. As we sit among the trees, we become aware of the sights, sounds, and sensations that nature offers. The rustling of leaves, the chirping of birds, and the fragrance of the earth become our anchors to the present.

3. Nurturing Mental Well-being

The practice of forest sitting has profound benefits for our mental health. Studies have shown that spending time in nature reduces stress, anxiety, and depression. Forest sitting allows us to escape the noise of daily life, providing a sanctuary for our minds to unwind and recharge. It fosters a sense of tranquility and helps us gain perspective on life's challenges.

4. Connection with Nature

In a world increasingly disconnected from the natural world, forest sitting offers an opportunity to rekindle our relationship with nature. As we sit amidst the trees, we begin to recognize our interconnectedness with the environment and the intricate web of life that sustains us. This newfound appreciation can inspire us to become better stewards of the earth.

5. Heightening Senses

In the forest, our senses come alive. The symphony of natural sounds, the vibrant colors of foliage, and the textures of the forest floor awaken our senses in a way that urban environments seldom do. Forest sitting heightens our awareness and allows us to explore the world around us through a different lens.

6. A Gateway to Self-Reflection

In the tranquil embrace of the forest, our minds naturally turn inward. Forest sitting creates a space for self-reflection and introspection. It enables us to explore our thoughts and emotions without judgment, fostering a deeper understanding of ourselves and our place in the natural world.

7. Practicing Gratitude

As we sit surrounded by the majesty of nature, feelings of gratitude naturally arise. Gratitude for the trees that provide oxygen, the wildlife that calls the forest home, and the beauty that nurtures our spirits. Forest sitting reminds us to be grateful for the gifts that nature bestows upon us daily.

Forest sitting is a gentle invitation to disconnect from the rush of modern life and reconnect with the timeless wisdom of nature. Through this practice, we learn to be present, mindful, and grateful for the natural wonders that surround us. Forest sitting nurtures our mental well-being, strengthens our bond with the environment, and empowers us to become mindful stewards of our planet. So, the next time you find yourself yearning for serenity and connection, venture into the embrace of the forest, sit quietly, and let nature's wisdom reveal its wonders to you.

Connect with nature through Memphis Mushroom Festival

Experience the powerful healing of nature through the annual Memphis Mushroom Festival, a multi-day experiential event celebrating nature, sustainability, healthy foods, and plant medicines. Held at the stunning Meeman-Shelby Forest Park, the festival offers a chance to immerse in self-sufficiency skills and self-care practices, all while enjoying the serene 13,000-acre forest setting.

Ready for positive change?

Forward Counseling provides effective tools and support to promote healing. We assist clients in nurturing present-moment mindfulness, fostering self-compassion, and employing mindfulness practices to enhance concentration and focus, ultimately contributing to their personal development and overall well-being.

Q & A with Ranise Jacobs, PreLicensed MFT, Life Coach, Consultant & Christian Counselor

Q & A with Ranise Jacobs, PreLicensed MFT, Life Coach, Consultant & Christian Counselor

Ranise Jacobs is a therapist who specializes in helping women manage stress, anxiety, grief, loss, divorce, traumatic events, and complex relationship issues. She uses solution-focused therapy and a variety of intervention and treatment approaches, such as Exposure and Response Prevention for GAD, Panic Disorder, OCD, Social Anxiety, and Phobias. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Substance Abuse Counseling, mindfulness stress management, expressive arts therapy, and Reunification Counseling help incarcerated mothers prepare to reunite with their children. Sessions typically last 8 to 12 weeks, with a brief assessment and specific goals to measure progress. Therapeutic models include Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Expressive Arts Therapy, solution-focused therapy, Exposure Response Prevention Therapy, and Relaxation therapy.

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Unleash your Creativity: Join our LGBTQIA+ Arts-Based Process Group Therapy Today!

Get ready to celebrate diversity, express your unique identity, and unleash your creative spirit as Forward Counseling proudly presents the LGBTQIA+ arts-based process group from July to August 2023, igniting empowerment and self-discovery!

This transformative experience offers a safe and supportive space for LGBTQIA+ individuals, addressing the unique challenges they face, including discrimination and stigma. By fostering open and non-judgmental discussions, this group promotes acceptance and validation, while specialized care tailored to LGBTQIA+ needs greatly contributes to their mental well-being and helps reduce stigma within the community.

Katherine Brown, LPC-MHSP, EdD, of Forward Counseling brings her expertise in treating anxiety, depression, trauma, body image, self-esteem, anger management, and transition issues, offering a holistic approach to therapy. Integrated therapeutic modalities such as narrative therapy, somatic experiential techniques, emotion-focused therapy, dialectical behavioral therapy, attachment theory, and inner child work further enhance the transformative journey of self-discovery and healing.

Now, let's dive into an exclusive insider's scoop and discover the essential aspects of the art-based process group directly from the group facilitator herself, Katherine Brown.

The Power of Art in Therapy

· What is an arts-based process group, and how does it benefit therapy?

“An arts-based process group is one where individuals can share their emotions around their personal experiences while concurrently working on planned artistic activities including but not limited to painting, sketching, sculpting, collaging/vision boarding, weaving, and beading. This approach is therapeutically beneficial because it allows for deeper experiencing and understanding of emotions as the act of creating art engages clients more comprehensively than standard talk therapy. In other words, the act of using one's hands to transform materials into artistic creations can provide a sense of agency and pride. Clients often find that the movements they make with their hands and arms to create the art is soothing and grounding. Having an outlet in which to pour one's emotions is also beneficial because clients get to let emotions flow into the materials and the final product they create, and have a physical representation of whatever they're feeling and discussing.”

·How can art-making and creative expression help individuals explore their emotions, thoughts, and experiences? 

“Sometimes, it's easier and feels safer to show or represent our emotions, thoughts, and experiences than it is to talk about them. This is particularly true for traumatic content and memories, when discussing traumatic experiences can be harmful to clients' nervous systems in that recalling vivid details can be like a re-living of traumatic events for some clients, and can be vicariously traumatizing for other group participants. Also, trauma is very wide-reaching in that it affects the entire nervous system, not just the brain, so art-making and creative expression helps clients explore the knowledge that is held in the body, which is quite a different way of knowing than analyzing with the mind.”

·In what ways does engaging in the creative process benefit LGBTQIA+ individuals in therapy?

"LGBTQIA+ history is rich with creativity, and Queer-centered spaces have historically grown around spaces that are also artistic. Currently, LGBTQIA+ individuals and groups are facing an onslaught of bigoted legislation and have for centuries been the targets of discrimination and hate. I think that perhaps now more than ever, Queer people need outlets for creative engagements in supportive contexts. In the group program I have created, I aim to send the message that Queer people are not to be discriminated against or even just tolerated, but are to be celebrated and supported."

Creating a Safe and Supportive Space

  • What efforts are made to foster a sense of belonging and validation for participants?

"This group is specified as being only for Queer people, and that specification is made clear during the pre-screening interview participants have with me individually prior to the group starting. This pre-screening interview is an opportunity for me to get to know participants, including their needs and wants through group participation. This interview also serves as a chance to screen out anybody who might be trying to join for the wrong reasons or for anyone who exhibits antisocial or potentially dangerous (physically or emotionally) behaviors.

As the group facilitator, I proudly and openly own my queerness and communicate that to participants during the pre-screening interview. Some of the first questions I ask during this interview are,

"What are your pronouns?"

"How do you identify?"

These simple questions start the process off with a safe and supportive stance. Finally, participants are encouraged to engage respectfully in the group process, to respect others’ boundaries, and to allow time and space for everyone who wishes to share to be able to do so."

Overcoming Barriers to Expression

  • Why is it important to address the difficulty some individuals face in expressing themselves verbally?

“Clients need to know that therapy does not have to involve just talking and thinking. In the arts-based process group, participants are free to speak openly to the extent that they feel comfortable doing so. But it's also ok if participants don't want to talk as much, and prefer to concentrate on their creative activity, listen, and observe the group interactions. Nobody has to feel put on the spot and participants are free to share spontaneously while creating art at the same time. I think it’s also important to reiterate that people don’t always have the words to accurately describe what they’re going through, and in these cases, arts-based endeavors offer another outlet for communication and self-expression.”

  • How does the arts-based approach challenge the stigma surrounding therapy and promote inclusivity?

“An arts-based approach to therapy can work against power dynamics/hierarchies in traditional therapeutic settings, where the therapist/facilitator is seen as the expert who runs the show, so to speak. In the arts-based process group, I believe that each participant is the expert on their own lives, identities, and how they choose to express themselves. As a group facilitator, I actually take a de-centered stance and encourage participants to run the discussion and go in the directions they see fit, according to the topics they wish to verbalize and share. I position myself on the outskirts of the group and provide art supplies, prompts, questions, and topics to consider while letting participants respond to what they wish. As the group facilitator, I emphasize repeatedly that artistic talent and/or training is not necessary at all; I share some of my own creations with the participants to solidify that point. Another factor I’d like to note about my group is that it is open to a wide range of ages. The teen group is for adolescents aged 13-17, while the adult group is for anyone 18 and older. Sharing intergenerational pieces of knowledge and experiences can work toward dismantling traditional power dynamics and even the playing field, so to speak, because what each person shares is treated as important and equally valid. Finally, another effort to challenge the stigma surrounding therapy and promote inclusivity is that invite participant to make themselves as comfortable as possible, and participants often choose to sit on the floor surrounding a low table. I encourage participants to get their hands dirty, make a bit of a mess, and shed as much anxiety as they can as they engage in the process.”

  • In what ways does the group address the unique needs and experiences of LGBTQIA+ individuals?

“I've designed each session of the arts-based process group to include prompts, questions, and discussion points that are specific to the Queer experience and even more specifically, to the experience of being a Queer person in the American South during these times. I also encourage participants to really get to know each other. Often, socializing outside of therapy groups is discouraged, but for the needs of the Queer population in the Memphis area, I believe it is imperative to expand connections and build social support systems. Therefore, I actually encourage communication among participants outside of the group.”

This transformative art-based process group and experience celebrate diversity, foster empowerment, and encourages self-discovery as participants engage in creative expression and find solace in a safe and supportive space. Forward Counseling is committed to prioritizing the mental well-being of the LGBTQIA+ community, providing specialized care, promoting inclusivity, and challenging the stigma surrounding therapy. Join us on this extraordinary journey of celebration, support, and growth as together we build connections and celebrate the vibrant spirit of the LGBTQIA+ community.

Unleash your creative potential and embark on a transformative journey

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Unleash your creative potential and embark on a transformative journey 🌈

Nurturing Mental Well-being, Challenging Stereotypes and Misconceptions about Masculinity

Nurturing Mental Well-being, Challenging Stereotypes and Misconceptions about Masculinity

Society often imposes significant expectations on fathers, emphasizing their roles as providers and protectors. However, it's vital for fathers to prioritize their mental health and challenge societal myths about masculinity. By fostering open conversations about mental well-being and engaging in self-care practices, fathers not only benefit themselves but also become positive role models for their children. To address the stigma surrounding mental health challenges, sharing personal stories from fathers who have sought help is crucial.

Dean Graves, a mindfulness instructor at Forward Counseling, emphasizes the need for fathers to challenge detrimental beliefs, noting that fatherhood transcends gender. By nurturing their mental well-being, fathers can build stronger connections with their children, challenging traditional notions of masculinity and promoting a more inclusive and emotionally healthy society. Let us prioritize mental health and create a nurturing environment for fathers to thrive, challenging misconceptions about masculinity along the way.

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Juneteenth: A Day to Celebrate Freedom and Healing

Juneteenth: A Day to Celebrate Freedom and Healing

Juneteenth, a day of profound significance for African Americans, goes beyond celebrating freedom—it marks a crucial opportunity for conversations about mental health and healing. The enduring impact of historical slavery and systemic racism has left a deep imprint on the mental well-being of the community, with generational trauma contributing to challenges like anxiety and depression. Systemic racism inflicts persistent stressors, leading to increased rates of mental health issues. Prioritizing self-care becomes essential for resilience, empowering individuals to navigate the impact of discrimination. Community support emerges as a vital aspect of healing, fostering a sense of belonging and reducing isolation. Steps for becoming the best version of oneself include prioritizing self-care, seeking support, practicing self-compassion, cultivating resilience, and staying informed. As we commemorate Juneteenth, Forward Counseling stands committed to addressing the unique challenges faced by the African American community, offering specialized mental health support to promote healing and liberation. Visit www.forwardcounseling.com to explore our services and join us in the journey toward mental health equity and societal upliftment.

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Pride and Mental Well-being: Celebrating LGBTQIA+ Identity and Cultivating Inner Strength

Pride and Mental Well-being: Celebrating LGBTQIA+ Identity and Cultivating Inner Strength

As Pride Month unfolds, it's imperative to recognize the intricate link between LGBTQIA+ identity and mental well-being. The community contends with pervasive stigma and discrimination, significantly impacting mental health. Embracing pride becomes a transformative act, fostering inner strength and acceptance. LGBTQIA+ youth, facing unique challenges, often grapple with higher rates of substance abuse and mental health issues. Inclusive environments and support systems play pivotal roles in mitigating these challenges. Forward Counseling, attuned to these concerns, offers specialized mental health services. Pride Month is a call to actively engage in events, connect with supportive communities, access mental health resources, and prioritize self-care. By doing so, individuals can navigate their mental health journey with resilience, embracing their authentic selves and fostering lasting well-being.

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Embracing Hope on the Path to Recovery: Discover Support and Healing at Forward Counseling

Embracing Hope on the Path to Recovery: Discover Support and Healing at Forward Counseling

As Mental Health Awareness Month concludes, Forward Counseling stands as a beacon of hope, emphasizing that recovery is achievable despite daunting challenges, offering comprehensive support tailored to individual needs, and fostering a nurturing environment where hope is cultivated through evidence-based therapies, empathetic professionals, and a commitment to holistic well-being—inspiring individuals to embark on a transformative journey toward a brighter and healthier future.

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Karen Grossman On Her Young Women's Group Sessions

What is the description of this group? 

A supportive group for young women dealing with quarter-life issues. This is a major transitional time and many will benefit from having support as they adjust to multiple life changes all hitting at once. 
How many weeks does this group last? 

It’s an open group. Will continue to run and people can start and stop at any time. 

What would each session in this group look like? 

In person. A few young women. We’ll start with a check in, see if anyone has any issues that they want to share. The group will be relatively unstructured, with each member having some time to discuss what they feel they need to do for that day, and giving feedback. I will be ready as needed to lead the ladies in relaxation exercises, mindfulness exercises, coping skills, or other activities that might be beneficial. 

What might someone gain from this group?

 Emotional support, Self-acceptance increased by receiving feedback from others in similar circumstances, Increased confidence in socializing/connecting with others. Reduces feelings of shame and isolation. 

What would the ideal group member of this group look like? 

Ages 20-28, Female. Someone seeking additional social support. 

What would the ideal member of this group be dealing with? 

Dealing with quarter life issues: Adjusting to career/work. Adjusting to living on their own. Self-esteem, financial, social, dating, family issues will be discussed. Women trying to figure out who they are and what direction their life is going.

What are your personality traits? 

Empathic, Non-judgmental, Open minded, Gentle

What is your background experience that helps you be a good group leader for this group? 

I love helping people figure out who they are and providing support through transitions. I have run many groups (IOP and PHP for mental illness and dual diagnosis as well as a social skills group). I love helping the clients interact with each other during groups. 

What therapeutic modalities or assessments might you use in this group? 

What modalities do you use in individual therapy? Eclectic approach but heavy on CBT, Mindfulness/Relaxation and Strengths Based. I will be teaching/encouraging self-care, general emotional understanding and coping skills, and relaxation skills. 

Why should someone do group therapy as opposed to individual therapy? Should they do both? 

For this group they should also be in individual therapy. The group is a great supplement to individuals to help the clients improve sense of self and self esteem, build connections, realize they aren’t alone, their struggles are relatable and to get support. Groups are also great for those with social anxiety as it’s great practice in talking to others. 

What might you say to someone who is a bit nervous to start the group or is not sure they are a good fit for it? 

It’s very normal to be nervous about starting a group but in a little time it should feel comfortable. She won’t be forced or pressured to share. Lots of people take their time to open up and are a little quiet for the first session or two. They will be in charge of what they share (this is one reason why they should also have individual therapy, in case some things are so personal that they’re not comfortable sharing). The group is open so they can stop attending at any time if they don’t like the group.  

We work with clients located ANYWHERE in the world. How can we help? Let us know at forwardcounseling.com/contact

Parent's Group With Karen Grossman

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Parent’s Group is a 10 week long support program for parents (or primary caregivers) raising kids with special needs. Raising a child with special needs can feel overwhelming and isolating. Parents may struggle with self-blame and self-doubt. It can be exhausting and often parents spend so much time and energy focused on their kid they neglect their own needs. This is a safe, nonjudgmental space to focus on what they’re going through. Each session is virtual and focuses on a different topic each week. Participants will be able to share their experiences about the topic and give feedback to each other. The group will focus on topics such as; dealing with the diagnosis and changed expectations; impact on marriage/parental relationships; impact on siblings; struggles with the school system; dealing with extended family; navigating services; dealing with social settings; and self care. Sessions will have an eclectic approach but will lean  heavily on CBT, Mindfulness/Relaxation and Strengths Based. It will encourage self-care, general emotional understanding/processing, and relaxation skills. 

Through participating in this group, parents can hope to find emotional support, some relief from being able to express themselves in a nonjudgmental setting and support by seeing that others have similar struggles/emotions. This group welcomes any parent or caregiver of a child under the age of 18  with any special need. However, this is for an individual parent, not a couple. Ideally, this group is for parents feeling stressed and overwhelmed with the challenges related to their child’s special needs. They may be feeling overwhelmed, socially isolated, or  like their friends and family don’t get it. This group is for parents seeking community and support. 

Karen Grossman will be leading this group. She’s an empathetic, open-minded, and gentle therapist with ample experience working with adults, teens, kids and families. She has worked with people of varying ages on the Autism Spectrum. She’s also a mom with 2 kids with special needs- which she is forthcoming about but still wishes for the group sessions to focus on the families seeking support and their experiences and issues. Karen has run many groups (IOP and PHP for mental illness and dual diagnosis as well as a social skills group) and thoroughly enjoys helping clients interact with each other during groups. 

While Karen normally recommends individual and group therapy in most cases, parents in this group can solely focus on the community support they get from a group setting. This is probably a major stressors in their life and they might benefit from getting support on this one issue. The group is a great way for a parent to be able to focus on themselves and get the support and understanding that they need, potentially relieving some self-blame and self-doubt. 

It’s very normal to be nervous about starting a group but in a little time it should feel comfortable. No one will be forced or pressured to share and lots of people find it comforting to take their time opening up and to spend a few sessions listening and observing. We hope clients will commit to the whole 10 weeks but there is no actual consequence to stopping, if they want to stop attending they can. 

We work with clients located anywhere! How can we help? Let us know at forwardcounseling.com/contact

How To Move Through Fear and Uncertainty

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Though it may not seem like it, nearly everyone at some point has experienced fear of uncertainty. Whether it’s as simple as a fear of getting test results back or a general fear of the future--- the feeling itself is quite common. Uncertainty can be scary for anyone but especially so to people who deal with anxiety in their everyday lives. So what do you do about this fear? How do you continue to go about your day without knowing what’s to come? Unfortunately, we can’t see the future and it probably wouldn’t ease this fear even if we could. The best way to deal with uncertainty is to accept it.

Accepting Uncertainty

Oftentimes this fear is situational. If you have a big meeting coming up, you might dwell on if the meeting will go well, if something will go wrong, what if no one listens, etc. The outcome of the meeting is uncertain but a helpful tip might be thinking of other uncertain things that happen throughout the day that we don’t perceive as make or break; things we don’t necessarily think about at all. How do you deal with these uncertainties?

Is there milk at home for cereal? If not, I’ll just pick some up from the grocery store. 

Will I have time to make dinner tonight? Maybe, if not I have leftovers or I can order in. 


Like the ones here, most unknowns are not inherently bad! They’re normal occurrences that we expect and accept that we have to plan for. They don’t really impose on our lives in any way, they hold no weight. That big meeting’s outcome does hold weight but it’s still an unknown you can prepare for-- something you can expect and accept.

Learning to Manage Anxiety 

Anxious thoughts are just another unavoidable part of life, learning how to manage them is key to moving through life and accepting uncertainty. One way to manage anxious thoughts is to ask yourself: How do these thoughts serve me? Your thoughts are valid, but they can also be ineffectual. If your thoughts can’t be channeled into something productive, i.e if there’s a problem to solve, and your thoughts aren’t looking to solve it and just dwell, then they aren’t useful to you! 


Worrying isn't the only way that the fear of uncertainty can manifest; avoidance and constant assurance-seeking behaviors are also things that can and should be managed in order to deal with uncertainty. If you find yourself opting out of doing things that you don’t know the outcome of (I won’t apply for this job, what if I don’t get it) then practice focusing less on the “what if” and more on the fact that doing the task that scares you is an accomplishment within itself, regardless of outcome.

Practice Mindfulness 

It’s important to slow down, period. As much as everyone would like to conquer the world before bedtime, it’s imperative that we allow ourselves the time to connect with our bodies and minds. Working through the root of your anxieties is one of the best things you can do to better your mental health. Why does this specific uncertainty cause you anxiety? How does this fear make you feel physically? Will avoiding the problem make it worse? How do these fears serve you? Is there a solution to this fear? Asking yourself questions like these can help manage this fear and put you on the path to accepting uncertainty as a part of your life.

Ask For Help 

These tips are a good step to becoming comfortable with the unknown and the fear that it can bring. However, healing and coping doesn’t have to be a solo journey. Ask friends and family to support you by reminding you that life happens, whether we’re ready for it or not. Reach out to counseling options for support as well! A therapist or coach is a good place to find resources for dealing with uncertainty.

We work with clients located anywhere! How can we help? Let us know at forwardcounseling.com/contact

Q&A with Counselor Rachel McCullough, LMFT

Q&A

with counselor Rachel McCullough, LMSW

Rachel is an empathetic, innovative, and experienced counselor who believes that each person is unique and wonderful. She aims to help clients take an introspective look at environmental factors, familial factors, personality traits and more to comprise a treatment plan tailored to each client.

Rachel works with clients ages 15 and up who are dealing with depression, anxiety, anger, ADHD, family and relationship issues, trauma, or are looking to find their purpose in life. She has experience working with the LGBTQ+ community and helping clients discover and show their true colors. She also has experience working with those who are going through a breakup, divorce, or experiencing issues with family dysfunction and conflict.


Why should someone see a therapist?

Someone should see a therapist much for the same reason they may take in their car; for a check-up, there’s something wrong they can pinpoint, there’s something wrong they can’t pinpoint, or the whole thing is on fire and they need some serious help. Going to therapy isn’t necessarily saying something is wrong, sometimes it’s the desire to take an honest look at one’s life and see what can be improved, or maintained.

What made you become a therapist?

I became a therapist because I’ve always been fascinated by how the mind works, and specifically how someone's environment, family, and predisposing factors can influence someone's daily decisions. As someone who’s lived with depression all their lives, I’m constantly striving to examine my daily actions, and repair my thoughts.

In your opinion, what makes a therapist great?

Deep empathy and unconditional positive regard. A good therapist will give their patient a sense of autonomy, and act as a guide more than a manager. Every person is capable of being their greatest self.

Why did you choose your specialty?

I myself am I bi-sexual multi-racial woman, so I’ve always held deep love the LGBTQ community, and any minority.

What types of clients do you prefer to work with and why?

I love working with LGBTQ clients, as well as adolescents ages 17+. Gen Z is truly fascinating to me, and they are the ones shaping the world right now.

What are the characteristics of a client who is the best fit for you?

Someone who is ready to change but is unsure of how. Someone who may feel scared, but can summon the courage to look at their shadow.

What therapeutic approaches do you use?

Feminist, Narrativ, Gestalt, CBT,DBT and Solution-Focused.

What types of assessments have you used in therapy?

Beck Anxiety and Depression inventory.

How do you use skills you have learned as a therapist in your own life? Do you have an example?

Probably traveling, it has given me such a beautiful perspective of how so many people are different due to culture, background, environment etc, but share some universal truths, such as the desire for love and connection.

If you weren’t a therapist, what would you be doing?

Singing, or something to do with the arts.

What piece of advice might you have for a potential client?

For a woman setting boundaries, I would ask them to look at the influences which keeps them from wanting to set that boundary..whether that be religious background, FOO,or how they see themselves in society. After an honest analysis, I would have them ask were these thoughts/rules/decisions made for you with your desires, goals, and values in mind? Are these rules benefiting you? If not create your own rules and enforces them with boundaries.

Do you typically recommend medication? What coping methods would you suggest to someone who does not want to take a prescribed medication?

Each case is different, so it’s difficult to say. If there are extreme symptoms then yes I would suggest looking into them with a prescribing professional, however if they are mild I may not, unless the client expresses a strong desire to try them. Coping methods I typically suggest are a change in diet/exercise/routine and the addition of meditation, grounding work, and of course, therapy.

How should a prospective client prepare for the first session?

Take a deep breath, have your favorite tea, and don’t overthink it! If it will help you write a couple of questions down so you don’t forget in the moment. In a typical first session it will be about getting to know each other, so no pressure.


We work with clients located ANYWHERE in the world. How can we help? Let us know at forwardcounseling.com/contact


Q&A with Counselor Liz Ferzacca, LMSW

Q&A

with counselor Liz Ferzacca, LMSW

Liz is a therapist with a mission to guide her clients to self-healing through learning how to build a healthy relationship with themselves. She likes to utilize holistic approaches that create safety and trust within, and focus on the mind, body, and soul to help clients learn how to work with difficult emotions.

She is trained in EMDR, Ego-state therapy, and TF-CBT. She also employs CBT, DBT-informed techniques, person-centered therapy, mindfulness, and somatic techniques when appropriate. She ultimately aims to provide a safe and supportive space for clients to explore their own human experience.


Why should someone see a therapist?

I think someone should see a therapist if they are struggling in life and don’t know how to work with their emotions. There is always a learning opportunity when you explore your human experience!

What made you become a therapist?

I wanted to become a therapist because of the experiences in my life. I wanted to help people alleviate their suffering. Now it’s because I want to help guide people to self-healing!

In your opinion, what makes a therapist great?

Understanding that we are human first. I think great therapist are those that understand that the person/client is the expert of themselves, and their lives and we are just guides helping them learn how to self-heal.

Why did you choose your specialty?

I chose my specialty because everyone has a story and a human experience that they have learned to adapt to. I want to help them understand that with guidance, people can learn to build a relationship with themselves cultivating trust and safety within that allows them to self-heal.

What types of clients do you prefer to work with and why?

I prefer to work with those struggling with anxiety, depression, and trauma. I have found it is so common and relatable amongst us all.

What are the characteristics of a client who is the best fit for you?

I want to work with people that are motivated for change, want to do the work, and are willing to explore their human experience to learn more about themselves.

What therapeutic approaches do you use?

I use holistic approaches such as parts work, EMDR, Ego-State, Attachment-based, CBT, DBT-informed, person-centered, trauma-informed, and somatic techniques.

What types of assessments have you used in therapy?

I have used CAFAS, trauma, substance abuse, and crisis assessments for children and adolescents in community mental health.

How do you use skills you have learned as a therapist in your own life? Do you have an example?

I use somatic techniques and parts work to work with my emotions and continue to build a relationship with myself. I incorporate movement in my life through dancing, skating, exercise, hiking, and PLAY (the most crucial of all) to cultivate trust and safety within.

If you weren’t a therapist, what would you be doing?

I would want to do something with somatic healing such as a dancer, skater, and/or movement instructor/trainer. I would love to be a somatic therapist/guide.

What piece of advice might you have for a potential client?

I would tell them that building a relationship with yourself is the most important relationship you will ever have. This allows you to get your needs met, communicate well with others, builds self-esteem, and allows you to establish boundaries. You learn to become more aligned with and rise in love with yourself.

Do you typically recommend medication? What coping methods would you suggest to someone who does not want to take a prescribed medication?

If that is something the client wants, I would refer them to a doctor qualified to prescribe medications. I would suggest holistic approaches that one can easily use such as breathing and somatic techniques to help work with your emotions.

How should a prospective client prepare for the first session?

I want my clients to know they can be themselves and we are all humans trying to navigate life. I understand what a privilege it is to share your story and innermost feelings with someone. I provide a safe space for people to allow themselves to be vulnerable. I want my clients to be open to exploring their human experience with me.


We work with clients located anywhere in the world. How can we help? Let us know at forwardcounseling.com/contact