Q and A with Nemetria Tate, PsyD

Q and A with Nemetria Tate, PsyD

Nemetria Tate is a dedicated psychologist who understands that seeking assistance is a courageous step toward growth. Holding a doctorate in Clinical Psychology from The Chicago School of Professional Psychology, she specializes in helping adults navigate challenges such as low self-esteem, boundary issues, communication hurdles, adapting to life changes, trauma, anxiety, and depression. Nemetria's therapeutic approach is centered around Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy and other proven methods, all while maintaining a culturally sensitive and strengths-based perspective to ensure a customized and enriching therapeutic journey. Beyond her professional commitment, she finds joy in audiobooks, movies, and cherished moments spent playing games with loved ones.

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Forest Sitting: Embracing Tranquility and Connection with Nature

In the midst of our busy and technology-driven lives, finding moments of peace and solace can be a challenge. However, there is a mindful practice that allows us to slow down, immerse ourselves in nature, and find serenity amidst the trees - forest sitting. More than just a mere pastime, forest sitting is a meditative and contemplative experience that encourages us to connect with the natural world on a profound level. In this blog, we will explore the art of forest sitting, its benefits, and how it can help us cultivate a deeper bond with nature.

1. The Essence of Forest Sitting

Forest sitting, also known as tree sitting or woodland meditation, involves spending time in a forest or wooded area, ideally away from human disturbances. Unlike traditional meditation, forest sitting doesn't require a specific posture or focused breath control. Instead, it invites us to embrace stillness, silence, and the beauty of nature surrounding us.

2. Mindfulness in Nature

At the heart of forest sitting lies mindfulness - the practice of being fully present in the moment without judgment. As we sit among the trees, we become aware of the sights, sounds, and sensations that nature offers. The rustling of leaves, the chirping of birds, and the fragrance of the earth become our anchors to the present.

3. Nurturing Mental Well-being

The practice of forest sitting has profound benefits for our mental health. Studies have shown that spending time in nature reduces stress, anxiety, and depression. Forest sitting allows us to escape the noise of daily life, providing a sanctuary for our minds to unwind and recharge. It fosters a sense of tranquility and helps us gain perspective on life's challenges.

4. Connection with Nature

In a world increasingly disconnected from the natural world, forest sitting offers an opportunity to rekindle our relationship with nature. As we sit amidst the trees, we begin to recognize our interconnectedness with the environment and the intricate web of life that sustains us. This newfound appreciation can inspire us to become better stewards of the earth.

5. Heightening Senses

In the forest, our senses come alive. The symphony of natural sounds, the vibrant colors of foliage, and the textures of the forest floor awaken our senses in a way that urban environments seldom do. Forest sitting heightens our awareness and allows us to explore the world around us through a different lens.

6. A Gateway to Self-Reflection

In the tranquil embrace of the forest, our minds naturally turn inward. Forest sitting creates a space for self-reflection and introspection. It enables us to explore our thoughts and emotions without judgment, fostering a deeper understanding of ourselves and our place in the natural world.

7. Practicing Gratitude

As we sit surrounded by the majesty of nature, feelings of gratitude naturally arise. Gratitude for the trees that provide oxygen, the wildlife that calls the forest home, and the beauty that nurtures our spirits. Forest sitting reminds us to be grateful for the gifts that nature bestows upon us daily.

Forest sitting is a gentle invitation to disconnect from the rush of modern life and reconnect with the timeless wisdom of nature. Through this practice, we learn to be present, mindful, and grateful for the natural wonders that surround us. Forest sitting nurtures our mental well-being, strengthens our bond with the environment, and empowers us to become mindful stewards of our planet. So, the next time you find yourself yearning for serenity and connection, venture into the embrace of the forest, sit quietly, and let nature's wisdom reveal its wonders to you.

Connect with nature through Memphis Mushroom Festival

Experience the powerful healing of nature through the annual Memphis Mushroom Festival, a multi-day experiential event celebrating nature, sustainability, healthy foods, and plant medicines. Held at the stunning Meeman-Shelby Forest Park, the festival offers a chance to immerse in self-sufficiency skills and self-care practices, all while enjoying the serene 13,000-acre forest setting.

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Pride and Mental Well-being: Celebrating LGBTQIA+ Identity and Cultivating Inner Strength

Pride and Mental Well-being: Celebrating LGBTQIA+ Identity and Cultivating Inner Strength

As Pride Month unfolds, it's imperative to recognize the intricate link between LGBTQIA+ identity and mental well-being. The community contends with pervasive stigma and discrimination, significantly impacting mental health. Embracing pride becomes a transformative act, fostering inner strength and acceptance. LGBTQIA+ youth, facing unique challenges, often grapple with higher rates of substance abuse and mental health issues. Inclusive environments and support systems play pivotal roles in mitigating these challenges. Forward Counseling, attuned to these concerns, offers specialized mental health services. Pride Month is a call to actively engage in events, connect with supportive communities, access mental health resources, and prioritize self-care. By doing so, individuals can navigate their mental health journey with resilience, embracing their authentic selves and fostering lasting well-being.

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The 5 Best Books for Boundaries in Relationships

The 5 Best Books for Boundaries in Relationships

Looking to have healthier relationships that last and don’t leave you feeling used and misunderstood? Experts say the key to maintaining the healthiest relationships (including within your job, your friendships, your romantic relationships, and even your family) is being a ruthless, unapologetic boundary setter. Simply put, setting boundaries promotes respectful relationships. According to coach Angelik Sims, “Boundary setting is the most important way to teach people how you expect to be treated.” I get it- this is easier said than done. Many of us (ahem- me) have people-pleasing tendencies that make getting into the habit of setting and sticking to clear boundaries feel uncomfortable and awkward.

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The 5 Best Books Trauma Therapists Recommend

The 5 Best Books Trauma Therapists Recommend

A great way to heal from traumatic experiences outside of the therapy room is to educate yourself and learn from leading researchers and clinicians who are dedicated to providing the best information about the psychological effects of trauma and the methods that have helped others heal. You are not alone! Check out these great reads to get started in your journey towards beating PTSD and complex trauma.

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Healing from a Dysfunctional Childhood

Healing from a Dysfunctional Childhood

Trauma can also be generational in nature, meaning that it is passed down from one family member to the next as part of a given family’s cultural schema. Simply being aware of maladaptive interpersonal patterns of communication within your family won’t undo generations of dysfunction. Knowledge is power, but healing requires hard work. Here are some tips for coping with the newly discovered dysfunction.

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Starting Therapy: Should I use Insurance or pay out of Pocket?

Starting Therapy: Should I use Insurance or pay out of Pocket?

For people who worry about confidentiality, have high deductibles, or don’t have a mental health diagnosis, choosing to pay out of pocket with a therapist has benefits. Understanding which is best is a frustrating barrier. Insurance doesn’t need to be the factor holding you back from getting the absolute best treatment for your situation. There are many highly skilled therapists and life coaches at Forward Counseling who are excited to partner with you in your journey to reaching your highest self possible.

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LENS Neurofeedback: The Key to Your Brain Health

LENS Neurofeedback: The Key to Your Brain Health

Neurofeedback can help reduce symptoms brought on by the stressors of daily life and bring you back to feeling like a kid. Neurofeedback allows you to take control over your brain patterns. In many situations, it is possible to cure your brain health without using prescription medication. What we aim to do is address the brain as a whole, the patterns it creates and the experiences the client is having in order to propel the client to feel fully optimized.

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Grief is All-Inclusive: Join our Grief Group this Holiday Season

Grief is All-Inclusive: Join our Grief Group this Holiday Season

An interesting thing about grief- because it’s taboo to talk about- is that we tend to feel like the only one. Therapist Sarah Rather, M.Ed., NCC wants you to know that grief doesn’t need to be a scary word- let’s embrace it! Joining a grief group can provide the skills needed to healthily work through and make grief more bearable, and is the safe space needed to remind you that your feelings and experiences are valid and important. You are not alone on this journey.

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What is EMDR?

What is EMDR?


Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) uses techniques like snapping and tapping to create bilateral stimulation and rapid processing within the brain. Activating this process allows old memories, feeling and thoughts to be “digested” and replaced with a positive belief (Rininger, D). EMDR is evidence based and treatment ends when patients can visualize themselves in a future scenario where they were able to face the re-elaborated targets while feeling no emotional discomfort (Santarnecchi et al., 2019).

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Have you heard of EMDR?

Have you heard of EMDR?

What is EMDR Therapy?

EMDR stands for Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing. It is a form of therapy that helps people heal from trauma or other distressing life experiences. EMDR therapy has been extensively researched and has demonstrated effectiveness for trauma.

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Your College Student: Loneliness, Anxiety & Depression, Oh MY!

Your College Student: Loneliness, Anxiety & Depression, Oh MY!

As a parent, I know it is so difficult to watch our children suffer and feel powerless to fix it.  

Suffering in college is inevitable, and it is a necessary ingredient of the alchemy that transforms adolescents into responsible adults.  Negative emotions, drunkenness, being away from home for the first time, organizing a new schedule, intake of adequate nutrition, meeting a new friend group, figuring out sex and safety, getting oriented to a new city and constant stimulation from never being alone are just a few of the pressures on your child.  They are going to handle things in a way that will cause you worry because you probably forgot that you were once an amateur too. What is a parent to do?  Below, I've combined the best tried and true suggestions to help you and your child manage the growing pains of college life.

What can you do?

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*Trigger Warning, Overcoming Childhood Abuse* A Guaranteed Way to Feel Better About You

*Trigger Warning, Overcoming Childhood Abuse* A Guaranteed Way to Feel Better About You

I’m here to tell you that no matter what cards you were dealt in life; you are in complete control over how you feel. You already have the power within you to go from feeling bad about yourself to feeling good. I’m not saying it’s easy, I’m saying it’s possible. One guaranteed way to feel better about you is to make a promise to yourself and carry out that promise.

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Are you wanting to make rapid changes...?

Are you wanting to make rapid changes...?

Is your Job Stressing you out?

Are you having relationship problems?

Dealing with depression, anxiety, anger. grief, guilt, low self-esteem?

Have you ever experienced a traumatic event such as a natural disaster, theft, rape, or violence against you or a loved one?

If so, you may be a perfect client for group therapy…

So just what is group therapy?

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Your College Student: Loneliness, Anxiety & Depression, Oh MY!

Your College Student: Loneliness, Anxiety & Depression, Oh MY!

As a parent, I know it is so difficult to watch our children suffer and feel powerless to fix it.  

Suffering in college is inevitable, and it is a necessary ingredient of the alchemy that transforms adolescents into responsible adults.  Negative emotions, drunkenness, being away from home for the first time, organizing a new schedule, intake of adequate nutrition, meeting a new friend group, figuring out sex and safety, getting oriented to a new city and constant stimulation from never being alone are just a few of the pressures on your child.  They are going to handle things in a way that will cause you worry because you probably forgot that you were once an amateur too. What is a parent to do?  Below, I've combined the best tried and true suggestions to help you and your child manage the growing pains of college life.

What can you do?

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